Frequently Asked Questions

Q: Is it really necessary to screen everyone? I can assure you that I am safe to see!

A: I make it a habit to screen all first-time suitors and I do not accept references from dating agencies or masseuses. All references must come from independent companionship providers over 25. 


Not only for our mutual safety and peace of mind, but to ensure that our precious time together can be fully devoted to exploring the various aspects of our relationship. Mutual discretion is paramount. I never print or keep any records whatsoever after screening has been completed. If you are a new to this type of dating and you are reticent about giving me the necessary information to ensure mutual comfort during our first date, then I suggest you contact another companion.  


For those without references and who are not members of P411, I will accept one of the three methods listed below.


I require a blank email from your work account (I do not respond, as your privacy is important to me). This email account must look similar to




Cover up the address portion of your state issued ID with tape or a post-it. Your first and last name, DOB, EXP, Class, Lic# must remain visible. Take a picture holding this next to your face and text it to the number that I will provide.


I am will to meet you publicly at a local coffee shop for a $100 gift where I will  discreetly check your I.D. Please have it ready in a book, magazine, or newspaper.


If this is something that you are uncomfortable doing, please consider someone else for dating.

Q: What's the most efficient way to get in touch with you?

A: The best way to connect with me is to complete the Contact Form on my site or to email me directly. I respond to all direct contact within 24 hours. I do not respond to emails from third party mailers or DMs to my Twitter, therefore it is in your best interest to email me directly if you are seeking to meet same day.


I can also be reached by text if we have previously met. Should you decide to text me to express your interest in setting up a date, please understand that I will respond within 3 hours as academics come first.

I will contact you by phone 2 hours before our date to direct you to my incall location or to receive directions if you have requested an outcall. Please keep phone usage to a minimum and relevant to appointment communication only. 


IMPORTANT: An inquiry does not constitute a booking. As a woman who values authentic connections, I also screen for personality and lifestyle compatibility. Please feel free to introduce yourself and tell me why you think I am the right woman for you.

Q: Every woman has her quirks about certain things, what are yours?

A: My biggest one is what I consider common sense: Hygiene.  Particularly oral, body, and hand hygiene. Infectious disease and molecular immunology are the primary focus of my research interests. Microbial transmission and the etiology of various diseases is a highly fascinating subject... ONLY in journal publications and in a research lab. Cleanliness and fresh breath are not only healthy, they are sexy too!


I also prefer to date men over the age of 35. Gentlemen under 35 must have four references within the last six months to schedule a date with me.


I do not allow any type of photography or videos to be taken during our date as that constitutes a violation of my privacy, nor do I send photos via text or email. Request such as these will result in all contact being permanently terminated.

Q: What are your specific rules regarding patronage, cancellation policies and deposits?

A: Please place your gift in plain view upon my arrival. A nice discreet place is on the bathroom vanity in plain sight whether I am visiting your location or if you are visiting mine.  Please take the time to choose your package and understand additional time requirements beforehand. Any questions can be handled via email before our date.

Payment of Deposit: If you wish to book a date with me, I require a deposit of $100 USD to secure and confirm our date. There are no exceptions to this even if we have previously met. For all engagements 5 hours duration or longer, a 25% deposit is required to secure and confirm our date. All payments are securely and discreetly processed through a secure online/mobile payment processor.


Electronic Patronage (preferred): I use a trusted processor (there is a 3% surcharge) if you wish to take care of patronage in full before our meeting. Personally, this allows for the creation of more intimacy between us as everything is taken care of before our meeting. Statements reflect "Blush Copy, LLC".



Pre-Booking: I cannot stress enough the importance of pre-booking when I have made a tour announcement. If I do not receive enough pre-bookings for a given city, I will cancel the tour and refund 100% of any deposits received.


Remittance of Patronage outside of the US: If I am in your country and you are wishing to offer patronage in your local currency, please use a currency converter such as this one, XE Currency Converter.


Cancellation Policy: Life often comes with various ups and downs and we find sometimes the best plans must be canceled. If you must cancel our engagement, please give at least 4 days advance notice to avoid the assessment of a cancellation fee. If you cannot give 4 days notice, please understand that a fee of $100 USD for the first hour and $50 USD for each additional hour booked is incurred. Should I have to cancel our engagement for some unforeseen reason of my own, 100% of any deposit paid is refunded to you immediately.


Note: For "Fly Me To You" dates you must cancel a full 7 days in advance to receive a full refund. Any cancellation that occurs in less than 7 days will receive a 40% refund.

Q: Do you offer massage, cater to role-playing, domination or fetishes of any kind?

A: If you are interested in giving or receiving a massage during our time together, let's allow for it to organically happen and allow space for natural touch to unfold. 


Fetish, role-play and all types of kink are specialties of mine. I would love to explore the desires of the flesh with you be you seasoned or newly acquainted with such proclivities.



PLAY I DO NOT ENGAGE IN: I am not a PSE and I do not offer Greek or any unsafe services (for reasons I elaborate on in this blog post). I do not engage in painful play and I am not a submissive.  I know that there are those that find these types of play exhilarating and fun and as long as everyone plays safe, I think we all should be allowed to enjoy our naturally inquisitive adult selves.  For me personally, these things do not turn me on and when something is not a turn on it is no fun for either person involved.


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